Let’s Get Stoned!

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Let’s Get Stoned!

Let’s get stoned bahaha . . . o.k. it’s a different kind of stoned than you might be thinking.  Still spellbinding I promise!  Breaking down the messages of stones, crystals, and earth elements in our lives is such a fascinating experience.  Let’s take what we’ve discussed on the last post Soul Messages from the Moonstone and pull it into some specific examples.  I’m going to use some of my own experiences but I want you to cross reference them with yours.  Plug in your own experience and just use it as a baseline idea.

Here’s the first stone that came into my life after awakening!  Which before I woke up I had no clue that crystals were anything but cool looking.  I had heard people talk about them but I was still sleeping and thought maybe they just smoked a little tooooo much wacky stuff.  Now people probably think that about me even though I don’t do any kind of drugs including white sugar and flour lol.  I do think the world is full of fun games with words however and love finding these little treasures.  Have you ever noticed things like crystal and crystal meth?  Isn’t that what drug users are seeking?  A state of consciousness that is inside of them without pain.  They just don’t know how to access it without the drug. Reality is just so harsh and so many things here do not make sense. The high creates the need for the mental escape but not without other very unpleasant repercussions and addictions.

Here we have a bunch of earth elements that perhaps this feeling of euphoria was derived from . . . crystal healing, crystal grids, crystal consciousness, crystal clear, and all of those things are tools to assisting in hitting new highs and evolving ourselves to new places without suffering.

Regardless I’m glad I was sleeping back then otherwise maybe I would have judged others when they judged me rather than coming from a place of compassion and understanding.  I really understand the reaction.  I’ve been there but for the first time I’m following my feelings, gut intuitions, and the voice of consciousness.  Although I had no actual knowledge about this new world I knew I felt connected to them all of the sudden.  I wanted to learn and know what this metaphysical world was all about.  I want to be surrounded in Earth elements not this Wal-Mart reality lol.

I was at a shop in Sedona and found hundreds of beautiful pieces but I loved this one.  Kyanite.  I looked up it’s meaning which it’s a great aid in opening the throat chakra.  OMG yes totally had issues with this my whole life.

I couldn’t say shit if I had a mouthful.

I would let people run over me to avoid hurting anyone’s feelings even if they hurt mine.

I had a hard time expressing myself, standing up for me, or holding my own opinions.  I was more of the what do you think?  How can I conform to create peace here in life and with others?

My husband is the opposite reflection.  He is confrontational, pushy, and when he holds a viewpoint let’s just say he’s very passionate that everyone else should feel and think the same way.  This has made me much stronger.  Not only have I had to voice my opinion, be true to myself, but I have to fight for it in a balanced way.  My husband has absolutely made me a better person by being the yin to my yang lol.  But only after I decided to start standing up to others and voicing my own truth.  We both have a lot of different opinions but it’s so cool that we can agree to disagree.  We don’t have to see everything the same way to love one another.

For some reason this was the monster in the closet to me.  Saying how I feel when it may cause ripples was huge in my mind.  Yet, now facing and moving through that I have found that it’s so much easier than I expected!  Plus it’s made my marriage better!  Who knew lol?!?

All soulmate lessons aside the stone itself is a mirror image of what I presented to the world.  The front is somewhat rough and unrefined.  It’s beautiful but not even close to what most girls would consider the shiny bling they want to wear.

The back shows deep internal cracks and what appears to be dirt dulling the overall appearance.  My energetic body was at the same point in my journey.  The face I presented the world was like the front of the stone.  It mirrored the face that I wore out for the world to see.  My true inner self was full of deep trauma’s, layers of soul pollution dulling my shine, and hidden wounds.  Just like the appearance of the back side of the stone.  I did not wear it with the “ugly” side out just like me.  The true wounded self was hidden.  Exactly what I would do when I put the necklace on making sure to put the best side face forward.

This is exactly how the stone was a mirror to me as an energetic being.  I had woken up and realized I was living in a hologram built off of my internal self.  I could see now that I was broken.  At this point in my soul work I could not even look in the mirror and say I love myself.  I was full of insecurities, emotional baggage, and unhealed wounds.  I was clueless to even what I was doing here.  I didn’t understand the world.  I didn’t understand why I was here.  I didn’t want to be in my body.  I certainly didn’t understand any possible purpose in being in a world where so much hurt was going on.  The news was horrifying to me.  The state of the nation completely depressing.  I had lots of “issues”, anger, hate, and judgments in me even if it was for the “evil” in the world.

I didn’t just put this necklace on and think it was going to do all the work for me.  I worked in small steps on voicing my opinion.  I did self-work on flushing the people pleaser rather than an authentic person true to myself.  I started unraveling all the “issues” inside me being mirrored by the outside world.  The stone was not worn with the idea it would do everything for me.  However, it did assist me in opening my consciousness but I had to do the actual self-work.

At a certain time frame I didn’t feel the same need to wear this stone which isn’t co-incidence either.  I had upleveled, healed, and evolved through a lot of trauma and keys were coming together of what I was doing here.  I was at another crystal shop and found another piece that I liked that was amethyst.  At this point I had done a lot of healing work and this definitely reflected the new stage of life.  Amethyst is known for dealing with toxic energy.  And I was unraveling that part of my journey.  Learning how to seal off my bubble against the dark bodies and negative energy.

My husband saw the necklace and immediately reacted with a condescending tone.  “Oh I see you bought yourself something”.  I mirrored back an inner wound I had been working on . . . feeling ashamed when I spend money on myself.  Unable to receive.  Overly-Sensitive.  My reaction was immediately to qualify the purchase by saying it was $7.50.  I had gotten emotionally triggered by his comment shaming me because I had the internal matching wound.  Once all of the trauma connected to those unbalanced elements in myself healed only then would I be able to not react to his comment.  It wasn’t about him.  He was just the messenger.

Do you see when we have soulmates something much more powerful is happening!  They are wired to match our inner trauma’s.  Before I woke up I would have blamed my husband.  I would have thought he was such an asshole making me feel bad for buying a $7.50 necklace.  He probably spent more than that on gas station junk food that day lol.  Now though I see where my inner toxic voice matched his external voice to me.  That I can heal, evolve, and move through into new inner frequencies . . . able to receive without shame.  I had to giggle though at the whole experience.  The necklace itself provided me with an opportunity to do that work internally and be a messenger to me.

When we have toxic people we feel we need to block it’s actually mirroring the inner relationship.  The emotional reactions are simply clues to where we are toxic, weak, or have unhealed trauma’s in ourselves.  The laws of attractions at work bring us what is energetically inside of us already needing to be healed.  We want to blame other people.  We want to think it’s their fault.  We want to be victims.  The truth is no one controls our emotions but us.  If I emotionally react to someone now I ask myself the questions.

  • Are they are just sending me the message where I already feel this way about myself?  Our subconscious self talk can often be seen by how others talk to us.  Let’s say we have “friends” who hammer us on every mistake we make.  It’s a match for what we do with our self talk.  We mentally hammer ourselves for everything we do wrong and do NOT see, acknowledge or give ourselves credit for all the wonderful things we do right.
  • Is this something I do I cannot see because my ego wants to believe it’s fabricated stories rather than see the truth?  Sometimes it is something we do and don’t want to be accountable for fixing ourselves.  My whole life I’ve been a push over.  I let people sway me on opinions or my kids walk all over me.  I wanted them to change.  Why can’t they just do what I ask instead of fighting me all of the time?  I would get frustrated with them rather than seeing myself as the problem.  When I woke up I realized they were just here to make me stick to what I say.  Don’t weaken.  Don’t give in.  Stop being a doormat.
  • Is this something the other person is actually blaming me for but what they do?  When you start figuring out how “projection” works it’s soooooo coool!  So much of what people see in others are actually elements of themselves.  I had never known this and so I took on so much of what others said with so much confusion.  Why would they think that about me?  Why would they say that?  Well really it is actually what they were doing or trying to finger point about and they are trying to point their guilty conscious onto me.
  • Is this suffering created by my ego’s need to control the world or people?  A lot of my own issues about the state of situations and relationships were simply my ego wanting to say what is right and wrong for others.  Instead of just focus on my own life and what I was doing right and wrong.  What I needed to fix, heal, evolve, and change.  I started asking myself questions.  Can I do something about this?  Is it going to help or change the situation by getting worked up or just change my mood, outlook, and happiness?  I stopped plugging into toxic things and letting them control me.  I used all of that hurt and focused in on healing and doing things that would truly in my mind make a positive difference.

Our emotional reactions are absolutely a road map to the soul.  Some places are where we need to work on us absolutely.  And some places are where other people are mirroring back where they need to work on them but instead of seeing it for what it is they try and pin it on you.  You can insert whatever experience you want it all breaks down the same.  Just the wounds are mirrored back differently or the messages maybe different.

This is all that relationships are in our lives.  MIRRORS!  If there is some emotional suffering created in the dynamic we need to open our eyes.  These are the places where our inner garbage matches up with the garbage someone else is handing us.  Or the way they treat us matches the way we feel we deserve to be treated.  Or a spiritual test we haven’t jumped?  Or karma circling? And the reality is the truth not what the brain tries to tell us.  Truly in the space of wearing this necklace that’s exactly where I was in my life.  I had “friends” but they were only there when they wanted to use me for something.  If we allow ourselves to be used by people who’s doing the allowing?  We are.  Why?  We feel like we need to do stuff for someone to be liked.  And at the heart of me was a person who genuinely wants to help people but I was out of balance.  I had people who I was there for but were not there for me.

In none of these situations am I depending on the stones to do anything “for me” but I am allowing the opening up of the energy for them to show me “what do I need to do for myself” to heal and transform.  How can I use the crystals energy to assist me?  I look up the meanings and messages of the stones, crystals, and earth properties that have been brought into my life.  There could be a stone show up and then you have a vivid dream that’s trying to communicate some aspect or element of you.  Part of it is interpreting what the universe is trying to communicate and the other part is practical application.  You may make a crystal grid and set an intention of unlocking the true emotional issues in connection with a physical illness.  Life is full of messages but we have to change our perspective.  Look, listen, and actually do the inner/outer work!

We are in a world of hurt people hurting people and we are included in that.  In order to stop the wheel of hurt we must complete the mission here.  Evolve, heal, and transcend these old thought patterns blaming, pointing the finger, and pushing off our responsibility to heal on other people’s personality qualities.  Your body, your life, your experiences are the output of the energetic input.  It’s that simple.

Rather than blaming, judging, or feeling that things happen to you shift your perspective.  Anywhere there is suffering in your life it’s looking to send you a message of what’s already inside of you.  Weakness’s, insecurities, spiritual tests that have not been jumped, unhealed trauma’s, and inner wounds being replayed over and over.  Your job, marriage, friendships, and relationships are all designed to do one thing.  Teach, evolve, and show you where you need to do inner work.

This is the first step we need to take!  Reverse our thought process about life and start mapping everything that creates suffering back to us.  Only when we change the internal energetic charges can we reflect the new reality.  Any wars or conflicts with the world are simply mirroring the war, imbalances, and conflicts already residing inside of us.  We want to flip the switch and start mirroring back abundance, peace, love, bliss, and our healed evolved version of ourselves!

Let’s teach you how to be your own soul investigator.  All the darkness in the outside world is by design to trigger the darkness inside of us.  We need to clear those responses out and do the soul work to strip the darkness of all it’s power and allow it to let our LIGHT SHINE BRIGHTER.

I want us and our energetic bodies to stay lit up like this picture below no matter where we are, who’s trying to get in our bubble, or what’s happening in the outside world.  That is at the heart of energy healing.   Not allowing this messed up place to energetically transfer any of your inner light to the darkness.  We are coming to a time when many Starseeds are coming together to win in this energetic, physical, mental, and emotional war.  All of us must purify so we can assist the rest of the planet in understanding the keys, purpose, and build the strength that the narcissists, Illuminati, toxic personalities, Reptilians, etc. are designed to teach us.

What is happening on Earth between good and evil is going on in the small scale between people, a big scale with the governments, and on a galactic scale with different planetary members from all over the galaxy incarnating to assist Earth in this big shift.  This is exactly what we are doing here as we unfold our spiritual missions

Constantly radiating light even in the dark!  We will get into that in the next blog post.  How exactly can we do that with so many negative entities trying to tear us down?  Stay tuned!

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Much gratitude and love to everyone on their journey either way!

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Toxic Attractions and New Reactions

We all know those toxic personalities that we just cannot escape on planet Earth . . . DAMMIT LOL!  The light and the dark actually line up TO TEACH EACH OTHER soul lessons.  We often find ourselves cornered into dealing with them at work, home, or in life in some way.  If we don’t understand all the dynamics instead of the dark (narcissists, toxic personalities, etc) making the light (empaths, healers, fixers) shine brighter they actually feed off of our vibes like a parasite.  You can’t see it but there is energy transferring between people all of the time.  AND if the toxic person can control your emotions you are giving them “supply”.  Unknowingly feeding the beast . . .

In order to starve them of getting any energy from you and sealing off your own energetic body you have to do inner work.  This post is designed for the Empath (light body) who is already educated on the Narcissist’s (dark bodies) traits and behaviors.  I will be posting a future blog on those qualities but I feel that there are plenty of online articles and information available on the topic.  In fact, Melanie Tonia Evans has a fabulous amount of blogs and youtube’s with an amazing amount of content and information.  I personally have relied on her work to help me make sense of the nonsense and heal a lot of broken parts inside myself.  If I was to pay her for what she has done to help me with completely FREE resources I would owe her millions of dollars.  I can’t thank her enough for her work and what she continues to do in evolving the consciousness and healing of the planet.  She is brilliant!!  Here’s the link to her blog post outlining the characteristics of a narcissist (dark body).

Click Here – Characteristics of the Narcissist

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Program by Melanie Tonia Evans

Or you can check into her abuse recovery program by clicking the picture link to the right to find out more.  Any time you click on or use the links from my website we as affiliate partners retain a certain commission for spreading the word!  It’s a great relationship of helping one another.  AND if you are not in a position to buy her program she has an amazing amount of blogs, youtubes, and information available for free on her website. 

What I’ve not seen a lot of information about is the actual soul purpose of the Narcissists and Toxic Personalities.  There are specific reasons that we are in this sort of container with what I call dark bodies (narcissists).  God/Universe/Gaia has designed this dimension on purpose with these personality types.

In the relationship of the Empath (light body) and the Narcissist (dark body) both parties are looking for the other person to change so they don’t have to deal with their own inadequacies.  Yet if we change, heal, grow and evolve ourselves a powerful dynamic changes.  We recognize the narcissist’s tactics have become the stepping stone we use to get stronger.  In fact, they are like looking into a mirror where our imbalances line up with theirs perfectly.  These dynamics are actually where the opposite charges line up, attract, and connect people in relationships where they have places they need to do self-work.  Any element of your life that has suffering is trying to communicate with you a message for inner healing and self-realization.

Here are a few important tips to remember when dealing with narcissists, toxic, controlling, and manipulative personalities:

  1. CONFRONTATIONAL MEETS HIDES FROM CONFRONTATION:  When having a different opinion do not be wavered on what you think and feel. Be aware your job is to state your thoughts, belief systems, or ideals but then be unattached to their reaction.  They will argue for the state of arguing if you engage.  They love drama!  They usually create their own problems and then cry about them regardless of what they say.  Engaging means getting emotionally wrapped up in trying to make your point be heard, acknowledged, and accepted.  The narcissist is not capable.  However what you are begging yourself to do is be heard by YOU!  Regardless of what anyone believes, does, or thinks I am valid and have a right to be heard.  Do not let your voice be squashed but do not try to convince them of anything either.  You do not have to agree to respect each other’s opinions or love one another.  Understand you can control your reactions and how you deal with people.  THAT’S IT!  Everyone else is simply living their life according to their own viewpoints and reality.  If they weren’t completely delusional we would never gain this inner strength.
  2. CRITICAL OF OURSELVES MEETS CRITICAL OF US:  Love yourself exactly as you are including your flaws and imperfections. They will absolutely manipulate those against you!  They will say things on purpose to hurt your feelings.  We need the experience to show us where we reject ourselves.  The criticisms that cause us emotional distress or suffering are actually the mirrors where we hold guilt, anger, shame, or some kind of negative emotions “conditional love” about ourselves.  They are doing their part to painfully point it out.  If someone criticizes you ask yourself is this my issue?  Am I the one that’s got the internal problem.  I hate that I’m __________________.  Allow those criticisms to show you where you need to work on you.  When you no longer emotionally react you know have healed all those spaces where you reject you.  Newsflash it wasn’t ever about them anyways!
  3. CONTROLLING MEETS GIVES OTHER PEOPLE CONTROL:  As an empath we have no desire to control other people.  Yet, here is the dark body always trying to manipulate and control us.  They have so many tactics they that we are completely unaware of because we don’t use those skill sets.  Threats, blow ups, manipulating what we love in order to set us up (money, your children, hobbies, wherever your heart maybe attached too).  Isolating us from healthy relationships.  And yet we have the power to see through all of these tactics in order to regain our control.  If we don’t fall into the manipulation tactics and maintain a strong sense of self, who we are, and what we want they CANNOT infiltrate our being with their techniques.  The dark bodies see people as commodities to be controlled on purpose so we develop this strength.  It’s your job to stop giving away all your control.  Take back your personal power.
  4. WILL NOT GIVE YOU CREDIT FOR WHAT YOU DO MEETS WILL NOT GIVE OURSELVES CREDIT FOR WHAT WE DO:  We don’t feel like we are enough so we attract someone who makes us feel like we are never enough.  Every time they do not validate you . . . VALIDATE YOURSELF! They on purpose are not going to hear your concerns, give you credit for anything you do, or desire you to truly feel supported, loved, and honored.  You will have to become that sense of support, love, and trust to yourself.  Start giving yourself credit for what you do and contribute.  The reason we attract these soul mates is to create the suffering we need to see the issue isn’t them but us and where we have failed ourselves.  That we can fix!
  5. LIAR/MANIPULATOR MEETS NAIVE/GULLIBLE:  Awe it’s so cute for them to watch us truly believe their lies.  Here is the snake in the tree of the Garden of Eden so beautifully selling us the apple.  We are like Eve believing them because we are not full of lies and manipulations.  We don’t see those coming.  On purpose the snake has these magical powers to in fact “sell ice to the Eskimo”.  Here we are just falling into the trap believing them.  Start studying the habits of liars and manipulators.  Do they change their tone of voice or body language?  Where do their words not line up with their actions?  Do not just believe people without consulting the inner investigator first!  Lies, manipulations, blow ups, silent treatments, pouting, brooding, projecting, slandering, and the whole beautiful array of narcissistic manipulative tactics you can see through once you really get educated.  Start studying their tactics so you don’t get pulled into their games time and time again.
  6. TAKER MEETS THE GIVER:  Set your boundaries for yourself. Know exactly what you will and won’t do.  This can be the hardest part for Empaths.  We are giving tree’s and that’s exactly why they saw us as a commodity.  Not only will you have to set boundaries for yourself but you will have to FIGHT for them.  Here you are non-confrontational, a people pleaser, and always want to make other people happy.  They are that pushy person who will take, take, take until you are completely drained.  You sincerely want to be and do everything for everyone else at the cost of completely selling your soul.  We actually think we have to be a commodity for someone else to love us and they think you need to be a commodity for them to be loved.  Make the decision to say “no”, set boundaries, and reach balance (giving/receiving).  This will be a new space in the relationship and maybe difficult for them.  Be grounded and unattached to their tactics.  If they don’t love you when you are no longer the giving tree they never truly loved you anyways.
  7. CANNOT FIGHT FOR OURSELVES MEETS SOMEONE WHO WON’T FIGHT FOR YOU AND IS ALWAYS FIGHTING AGAINST YOU:  We must finally learn how to fight for ourselves in balance.  We have to see all the tactics, get trained, and learn some skills to protect ourselves.  If you are battling for something you feel is right be prepared to really lay out the carpet as to how this decision or agreement will BENEFIT the narcissist. They are ego maniacs so you can also use sheltering their public appearance as an important cornerstone.  Add in some little comments, “How will it look to everyone if you don’t support ___________?”  They are masters at triangulation meaning using an outside person to corner or gaslight you.  They will have usually teamed up with another person who makes a good puppet for them in order for you to feel like the odd man out.  This creates the illusion that you are wrong.  We will get into some of the tactics in a future blog post but you can get educated now.  Gaslighting, blanket generalizations, talking in circles, projections, and all kinds of tactics will be used against you.  Get educated and start fighting for yourself!
  8. CO-DEPENDENT MEETS CAN’T BE TRUSTED WITH BEING DEPENDED ON:  Get ready to move through the co-dependent part of you!  Really get at peace with being in your own company.  Trust me you’ll have plenty of time while you’re in the silent treatment mode or being discarded and de-valued!  Get serious with yourself . . . are you the “needs to be needed” attracting the “needy”?  Narcissists are great at trying to convince you to sign on the dotted line.  Once they get what they want poof they are gone.  On purpose the co-dependent needs this person who cannot be relied upon to lean and trust in themselves.  AND Definitely don’t agree to signing up for anything you know you can’t complete yourself.  If you need their knowledge or skills you are setting yourself up for frustrations.  They are teaching you how to rely on you and no one else.
  9. WE DON’T KNOW WHO WE ARE MEETS I WILL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE:  Get to know who you are without anyone else’s opinions. You most likely had goals and dreams before the narcissist.  What are they?  You most likely had friends and family who have been squeezed out of your life if they were considered a threat.  Go spend time with them.  Pursue your own interests again!  Discover who you are without the people pleaser, the societal programming, and the toxic person defining what you will be.  We have a very weak sense of ourselves and need to find that person.  Until then the narcissist is happy to define us and absorb us into feeding their projects, goals, and build their empire.  It’s up to you to do the inner work.
  10. OVERLY CONFIDENT MEETS OVERLY INSECURE:  Give validation to the narcissist. There is nothing wrong with admiring the narcissist’s strengths.  They can also be great people in lots of ways.  In fact, when you start healing yourself and there tactics no longer work it’s so much easier to enjoy their company.  We think we are angry with them.  Doing self-work shows us we are angry with ourselves being unable to deal with them.  I have learned a lot from narcissists!  They are ego maniacs so being great athletes, skilled professionals, leaders, or go-getters are qualities I admire.  Where before I would doubt, over-analyze, and be insecure the narcissist would be there reflecting that opposite personality.  Every person here has something to teach us and continually working on ourselves is the true task.  Gaining inner confidence, faith in myself, and perfecting inner balance is the goal.
  11. WANTS TO HELP EVERYONE MEETS WANTS TO SABOTAGE EVERYONE:  Be aware they are not here to help you in the traditional sense. They will sabotage your happiness and success on purpose.  If you start a diet they will push some sweet treat in your face.  If you start working out they will try and sabotage your plans.  To the narcissist everyone is competition.  There is not enough for everyone whether it’s admiration, love, money, or resources.  Do you see?  It takes a lot more inner strength to build yourself while someone is trying to tear you down.  They are temptations gateway.  Oh you just quit smoking let me blow smoke in your face.  Oh you’re on a diet and they just happen to show up with your favorite desert because they are so nice and thought about you.  Really they are just worried.  What if you have your own friends and they are not the center focus?  What if you follow your goals and dreams becoming successful and you don’t need them?  What if you get stronger and no longer are feeding their energy as a commodity to them?  If you get stronger or move beyond them what will happen to their false ego?  And in all of this worry they supply us with the test of our determination, will power, and determination.  Will you pick up that cigarette?  Will you eat the cake?  Will you dwindle your friends list for them?
  12. WE HAVE UNHEALED WEAKNESS’S WHERE WE REJECT OURSELVES AND THEY LOVE TO POINT THOSE OUT SO WE CAN FINALLY UNCONDITIONALLY LOVE OURSELVES AND OUR WEAKNESS’S:  Don’t dish out any personal information about weak spots in you. Everything you say can and will be used against you.  If you have already let the cat out of the bag be conscious of how they will use this information to push your hot buttons.  You can see how it’s being twisted to hurt you.  What’s really happening is the narcissist is magnifying the negative inner voice inside ourselves.  Use it as a tool to unconditionally love yourself and let whatever emotions come up be released.  Do you see?  The narcissist is voicing the negative inner voice inside ourselves.  They have showed up to show us the match for our own self talk.  You cannot attract someone who unconditionally loves you and your weakness’s, imperfections, and faults until you internally switch the coding inside yourself!  It’s not about them.  It’s about you.
  13. WE CAN’T LET GO OF WANTING TO HEAL AND FIX THE WORLD AND THEY ARE GREAT TEACHERS OF DRAWING THAT LINE . . . LETTING GO.  WE CANNOT HEAL AND FIX EVERYTHING:  You have to make peace with their qualities so you don’t bang your head against the wall. They don’t have the ability to feel guilty, ashamed, or compassionate for other people.  Their viewpoint is rationalized with them being the victim always regardless of what you have done.  They will twist every situation to make it look like they are the poor innocent wounded person.  This includes ignoring all facts that don’t support them.  Talking in circles.  Making blanket generalizations without supporting details.  Regular scheduled melt downs.  You are the bad guy but really they are frustrated with themselves, their job, their weight, etc. but it’s manifested to something about you.  They can’t be accountable for their faults.  We want so badly for them to see it yet they will never see it and the only person left frustrated will be you!  And truly the narcissist loves people on conditions and so do we . . . unconditional love would never be so powerful if it wasn’t for these personality types.  They are the test of the depths of our love.  Without moving into this space for them you will hold bitterness, anger, resentment, and judgement’s which only hurts you.  They do not care and will be the same regardless of how much you want to “fix” them.  Besides when you get into soul work you know they are exactly how they need to be to “fix” you.
  14. POSITIVE VIBE ATTRACTS NEGATIVE VIBE:  They will have completely false perceptions of situations, the past, people, or experiences that are nowhere in alignment with the truth. Don’t argue out there reality of disillusions it’s a waste of time and energy.  They really do live in their fantasy land where they are always the hero.  Or the victim or whatever it is they need to warp to fit their fake reality and get supply.  They see their lives with their own pair of sunglasses.  That pair of sunglasses puts everything and everyone in a negative light.  Except for themselves!  If you’re starting to see this be proud of yourself.  We are gullible and naïve and before you would have just fallen down the sucker road.  That means taking on their negative vibes.  The ultimate drain hole is surrounding you with their comments, viewpoints, and tilted reality.  To stay positive when you are around them means sealing off your container like a force field.  Otherwise anytime you hang out with them their negative goobers will bring you down.  Learn how to not be anyone else’s emotional puppet.  If they are negative don’t take that on and stay positive.  There glass is always half empty!  Yours doesn’t have to be!

Engaging peacefully with these personality types is completely possible.  Seems like a challenge and you know what initially it is.  However, as time goes on and you begin healing everything gets easier.  You really start understanding that they are helping you see those internal cracks and making you stronger.  The narcissist is simply showing you where you have imbalances.  These can be referenced to the energy systems that are not staying open.  I love the chakra archetypes because they are an easy way for me to identify when I am closing or opening chakra’s by doing my own self assessments.  Here is a link to a good article on the chakra archetypes that quickly allows you to do your own “reality” check.  See what resonates with you!


Your energy body is constantly opening and closing to how you live your life!  Shocking isn’t it lol.  The creator has completely designed a system that opens and closes energy when you are spiritually aligned.  That means energy work can open a doorway to healing but without changes in our state of being your energy field can close up moments after you get off the massage table.  All the work you just did was simply a band-aid.  A temporary fix.

Your energy field is constantly ebbing and flowing as you handle different situations, relationships and life.  The only true healing in my mind is the one that empowers the person and awakens a new awareness.  You are closing your own energy systems with any patterns, situations, or relationships that create emotional suffering.  The places where your energy is blocked from this suffering is creating illness and disease.  And vice versa!  Keeping these energy systems open all of the time takes self-work or self-realization.  You are the healer!  You are the “magic wand”!  It’s just all the concepts that have been kept in the vault by the Illuminati and tainting of information.  That’s why we are in this great window of time.


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Much gratitude and love to everyone on their journey either way!

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